Two men 20 years of happy Now it seems there is no force can stop us from a long life together life together, challenge the traditional a few friends. Only In it, their marriage is safe.
to commemorate the sex in the same report pointed out: a hidden characteristic of the era as the end of the.
Living together is called people's eyes, they are the boss and Erlao Ban, two successful careers in business, and for themselves, they are a loving decided to celebrate it. and they come in 5, 10, 15, , Chengdu, transfer between the same sex in an internal publication, Also their marriage Ren Sun Qingsheng Li Shu's family, Li Shu-jen 85-year-old mother, 60-year-old sister, as well as Sun Qingsheng parent family. said.
to commemorate, physique, looked hale and hearty and healthy, Sun stands behind Lee, smiling. from any point of view, this is a couple of standard photos, or even from their eyes, could see ;, mm long so that they spend more and more alike.
but this can not go to a special photo in the photo studio, Chengdu, team members take care of this task.
20 years ago this man made a
long shadow of the boy in the heart, the eyes are always cast a glance to cast a glance to go, yo thief observed the expression of each individual, and finally he can not stand the pressure, looking for a girl wanted to prove to everyone to see: I'm normal, I am interested in women.
Li Shu Ren said he was a vibrant boy, naughty, fight, like all risky business. and Li Shu Lu Kuang Jen grew up in a yard, said the United States Li Shu-jen is often the mother took the child play yard full of running bamboo. man's body, as long as things go girls, a bunch of excited herd boy, I stay away, that interest did not He is a beautiful, shy and introverted boy, girl thing he likes most proficient, shuttlecock, rope skipping is often the girls have defeated the end he remained in the game. In college, as a good dancer, he members of the school dance team. a black and white photographs 30 years ago left his dance scene: a boy with big eyes, the body is full of rhythm, limbs spread, as if to fly.
two boys first sexual experience occurred in both and men, are watching a movie over virginity.
Shu-Jen Lee said his life had never had sexual impulse of women. He thinks he's come, and believe that this life can not be changed no matter what method, unless the body of his, and reincarnation redo.
Sun Qingsheng not sure if his first was with a woman, he will become another person, The unique and painful mortals Sugar Lee.
as is the androgynous appearances of Simon, is a monster.
so.
Li Shu Jen secretly went to a doctor, the doctor said that his Sun Qingsheng until college when it found a resolve his confusion: he is not a monster; he is not got a disease; can get rid of this disease is not cured or; how their future life in the early hh
1980 Shu Ren Li Sun Qingsheng their lives in Chengdu and Chongqing. Lee in a factory, is the replacement of my father's educated youth from rural areas into worker; Sun in college, as admitted to the university before leaving the country. then they are 27 years old, in their respective cities experiencing different the same suffering.
Sun love in college, is a boy, the chairman of the school students, college, public figures. a. , and his heart like a mirror, but just can not hug her.
a place
fluttering
, those of us old people how to do? to teach in a secondary school in Chengdu.
two people touch you like others, they may not like you; people like you, you may not like him. exchanges long, a few months, short, to a two- times. , wounds in my heart. a long time, circle that is not true in this emotion. days did not come home, not happy in bed for days together. but he is also the most value for children, three boys where he looks the most robust, has married the other two boys are born girls, pass incense The second son of none other than non-heavy, so the parents described as engaging in bombings like objects, forced to marry him. can he see a beautiful baby girl refused to see, say, desperate to commit suicide. My mother shouted: l you hanging in my generation like this thing r, we have this statement is valid and do not understand the meaning, the mother of his generation Sha Yangzi, is not okay, a big burly big man, This sentence is like a riddle, guess our family for 20 years to thoroughly understand. slap in the face of a slap in the face, I was cold heart, and how those of us old people do? people like us are the same between men and women is absolutely the same, and this feeling is the feeling of the parents, brothers, not the bench. life.
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Hand me a cigarette, but a very serious fire from the bag and pulled out my point again. No title, no author's name, traditional characters, with a red pen, filled with round after round of strokes black circle, from the illustrations and text about will be able to see that this is a serious introduction to the book the same sex. This I do not know through what channels the book spread to Chengdu.
he first obtained knowledge about the same sex, he knew himself to be a special orientation of the people, and this is a lifelong sexual orientation, not by medical means to change. he was the first time that other countries have people like him. from fifteen-year-old to 30 years old, he spent nearly 15 years of pain and suffering was sure: he is a gay person.
; One night a stranger knocked on the door pound, a door he said he was a gay, said they want to live, but I heard there is a book I want to see before his death. The news travels much faster, but it was her door to Sun Qingsheng was surprised. photocopies of books of this spread in circles, each one spread, the book more round after round on the circle.
Sun Qingsheng there still with this book. read the book after his confirmation in the circle: the same sex should choose what kind of life. should not be and heterosexual marriage. and heterosexual married people have not changed sexual orientation. married people are not happy .
heterosexual marriage. I did not even pull her hand,cheap UGG boots, what is responsible for the negative?
to suffer heart and social in a double squeeze, when a fall afternoon in 1985, in Chengdu, the famous the pool edge, Shu Li, Yan Sun Qingsheng see.
gave me the lighted cigarette, but a very serious fire from the bag and pulled out my point again. Li Shu-jen appreciate a little sloppy in the easy-going, character staunch, aggressive, thoughtful not reckless.
fit the spirit.
known in their circle of the same sex, no one lived in this way.
ideas. he thought to do so, as we know him a month later, he admitted he took me home. ; identity. However, the home to 20 people, carrying his bowl when they eat in the yard, not every household courtyard privacy of people smell something soon.
Great men live together in pairs, and we all feel strange, pointing behind, not to say anything face to face, after all, the decades-old neighbor of the Well. > want to live, at least we do not have to harm the innocent girl. One is born March 6, one is born March 27, ;, a sitting high and a low point, the first two people close together. Of course, such photos to 70 yuan is the Sun Qingsheng two months salary, to the sunrise side of Lake Tuo, Li Shu-jen was the place to the countryside, holding a fist to the heavens swear.
in their series, but are also treasured photos of the year, it is your taxi drivers photographed, and photos filled with trendy atmosphere of the 1980s. a tower, the two are very close, Li Shu-jen burning hair, jackets, Sun Qingsheng wearing a suit, playing a big red tie,bailey UGG boots, flared pants .
At least we did not go to harm the innocent girl. This road, but God arranged for me to be such a person, I am very lonely, very lonely.
sister wrote back: No matter what happens, I understand you, because our veins the same blood flow. I I believe you said is true. send 100 dollars, as your wedding gift.
br> held a Sister remember very clearly, after worship in the Mountain, my brother smoked a sign, is the After the color too, Kennedy refused to resign.
Sister Lee
feel really a bit thunderstruck, the first reaction is what my brother got sick not to be.
sister told her mother, the mother said, impossible, you see two men are greatly throat, how Well !
Li parents are humble people, the father Buddha, long-term abstinence from meat, a bag hanging on his mother chest, one hand always in the bag, Nianzhao inside prayer beads, a bead recite a Buddhist twist. allow them to receive such a thing, is not easy.
not to force him to marry, as long as they do not break the law, how to get to how they want to have it. Besides his brother are not even working, people Sun Qingsheng or college students, high school teacher then, one day at a bar. This is the big sister to persuade their parents, then Lee.
though reluctantly, the parents or a bungalow for their release. Sister distressed brother from the perspective of accepted the fact, another brothers and sisters because of this or that reason and Li Shu-jen alienation. Anyway, the two men began their In a four-wheel car, ready to push the market up, grabbed my hands from the car Shu Yan, said that this historic first step I'll help you launch. There are four pay fifty dollars, enough for two people live. Li Shu Jen flatly rejected: You wait, I will work hard out.
few years ago, Hong Kong, Li Shu-jen for illegal dismissal of public office also failed to know when the Sun Qingsheng Today is secretly selling fruit, selling groceries tomorrow's homeless, often penniless.
One day Li Shu Ren Sun Qingsheng to discuss, to the outskirts of Chengdu, scouring scrap yards to sell some books, and then he rode a bicycle to the garbage heap to Pa.
distressed mother said.
mother said that since, and Sun Qingsheng together, the and parents kicked up a row and know good parents.
Li Shu Jen said, I do not know how, with the introduction of is to each other, have a good life, can not do whatever they had.
two people back to the old books divided the class, political, literary, exam review materials, etc., the most prosperous in Chengdu, put out a stall Chunxi Road .
I'll help you launch a step. They are too excited, at the corner angle of the two sub-divided the money spread on the bed, the first number on his head one by one before, found his money into a 60! Li Shu-jen went to sister house at midnight the good news.
begin to make money as fascinated! a waste station bump, it feels like a beautiful encounter, two people to be happy for ages. and to get rid of oppressive school environment, Sun Qingsheng walked out of work, and Li sub-mm to Chengdu, the site of all waste is divided into two stations, one run by half. Chancellor specifically found bookstall, advised him to go back, saying, The only bachelor's degree schools cried the high sound Low sound: there have to sell junk! stall on the two only fit hear.
unexpectedly good business, maybe 1980 books to meet the thirst for knowledge .6 years later,UGG boots clearance, they plate in a 6 square meters under the shop started doing book wholesale business, financial success so that they can assume more family responsibilities. Lee did not think the mother is, ultimately, is the son of her old age. Li Shu-jen by selling book waste of money, bought a house for the mother, please take care of her nanny; laid off brothers and sisters, come forward to take care of the sick is his; nephews generation to go to school, but also his job to come forward RBI; even take care of tenements in the neighborhood .
fact, a compound of the family and the neighbors to accept their spent about 10 years.
derailed
the strength of the family, legal and moral force, and most have children of heterosexual children is to maintain a strong bond of two people. but for us, is the power of r l points. of man's feeling, and a woman's feelings of being deceived is the same. home What? their understanding is: is the link, the bottom line of our guard. instill in them: from the prince and princess lived a happy life. but did not provide a template of the same sex.
There are heterosexual, there are mostly children and two children is to maintain strong ties. but for us, is the power of r l points. Chengdu has 10 gay bars, the younger generation can get together in a relatively open forum, and the park, the road side of the and heterosexual marriage, choosing instead to long-term same-sex years can not be used together with each other and accommodating each other. pressure, emotional indifference and many other issues. One key point is hard to match, this is the love from passion into the family. They specifically chose a one of the buildings, and selected in the top. they lived a life of invisibility. The new building tenants do not know the secret of these two men; their business customers do not know the other side .
on account of this, Li Shu Jen is headed upstairs of a house, he and his son is a member; in another unit of the mother's account of this, the Sun Qingsheng Lee Shu-jen 85 year old mother of the son, the house property is Sun Qingsheng's.
friends. Only In it, our marriage is safe. gentle and polite neighbors. filial son. generous brother. mutual respect and mutual love of a teacher and students out of the same sex thing, everyone is talking about, young man suddenly realized: a pair of your own home ah! When only 12 years old, now 27 years old. father's intention is to raise children against their old, but then the child is father to bring their experience.
two of us lives. But now it appears his father was right then. . Lee called the his studies on the future of such major decisions. the scene in high school, his son was worried about students playing thin, told chatter constantly dangling along the way, such as his son entered the school gates, his heart suddenly empty.
Li Shu Jen said, there are three circles also adopted for children, are to hold a child while feeding, and the largest has grown to fourteen years old. He took out series, there is a very beautiful girl, Li Shu-jen said the two fathers to All hopes are pinned on her, let her learn dance since childhood, the extent of heart that is not bad compared with biological parents.
son 13 years old, to their own re-took the name , Well, you are above a stone that you and I have two uncles that are below, if you do not obey, the following two put your top down.
son to college, the school and out teachers and students with a sex thing, everyone is talking about, young man suddenly realized: a pair of your own home ah!
son does not understand all that out, he carefully observed the two men's lives, They found that a tacit understanding that only long-term mutual induction talents to live together.
their clothes, shoes are the same number and never without distinction; their character totally different, but then in harmony. II Dad likes freedom, he is responsible for running the business out of stock, uncle delicate character, is responsible for keep sharing take care of the store, thousands of goods in his hands, placed neatly. they never for the money what quarrel, the two earn all at home, even in the second father, when hundreds of thousands of stocks Peidiao, uncle no one complained.
second dad to his father, stern and principles, uncle to him the maternal love, care and assistance. deep in his memory, and the uncle put his bookstall selling newspapers. getting dark when newspapers can not sell, my uncle took the newspaper to people on the bridge crying aloud, and more . a 40-year-old man in body fat, street selling newspapers, many people will pull less than face, gay studies Professor Zhang Beichuan Lee specifically asked the son: growing up in the family, sexual orientation will not be affected. the answer is: I love the girl.
if a stable relationship between the same sex who want to adhere to the marriage, what conditions? we Chengdu caring group discussed the first two people to love each other. The second goal of the two people's lives and values to be consistent. The third is the material basis, first house, means that a relatively free space, free from outside interference. then that is the social environment, including parents, neighbors and social relations, and finally the unrestrained freedom of occupation.
the couple to some extent, to encourage homosexuals as they wish, to face life. choose such a life requires a lot of courage, but also skills in dealing with practical problems. Do not think everything can not be pessimistic, in fact, everything is possible. sometimes not enough degrees of freedom, but We dare not think about not doing.
mmm Chengdu care team leader Wang Xiaodong
gay men's multiple sexual partners is mainly the result of social discrimination. If there is no public morality and the mainstream media support, no marriage protection system and relevant laws and constraints of men and women certainly the general way of life in multiple sexual partners.
Western public policy pundits Cobb (2002 years) that: the same sex are usually more problems than heterosexuals, which is because of their family and society's attitude to their dictates, this is to change the social practice rather than individual victims as a reason to change. If the community to give same-sex marriage and heterosexual marriage to the same status, some are just because of social pressure and heterosexual marriage will be forced to choose same-sex marriage.
mmm Qingdao University Medical College, Professor Zhang Beichuan
everyone should have the right to choose the life you want him, and who have the right to decide the future together to establish what kind of relationship. premise is voluntary, no injuries. no injuries, everyone will not move another person harmed; voluntary, it is his way of life they want, rather than imposed by others. For example, you believe in the long one to one partner is the best model, which is good, but if you want to impose this way, everyone, this is not good.
fact, the sex of the individuals with more than half of people Regardless of how the status quo, or want a man to share his desire, do not want to eat alone, watch TV, sleep, so no more than heterosexuals. For a long time-one is willing to enter into partnerships of people, society should provide a kinds of institutional guarantees. the same sex who are members of the society and are contributing citizens,Bailey UGG boots, why should we ignore the civil rights he should have? Of course this is not required that every person must be the same sex to marry. the right is give up. But when you want, it should be there.
mmm Sino-British AIDS Prevention and Care Project experts Jianghua
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